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As noted previously, the EFT model proceeds through three stages: Sta- bilization (which is called de-escalation in EFT for couples, for the obvi- ous reason that to create stability it is necessary to de-escalate negative interactional patterns); restructuring; and consolidation.
In Stage 1 of EFT, stabilization (called de-escalation in the couple therapy literature), the therapist helps them identify their negative dance, which they decide to call the Popsicle Dance.
The first stage of couple intervention involves de-escalating the nega- tive cycle or dance, usually one of complaint and criticism followed by distancing and stonewalling, that has taken over a couple's relationship and constantly primes insecurity and distress.
At this point, their negative cycle of distress is now de-escalated, and a secure base has been established for the growth of positive bonding cycles.
The goal of the session, set by the therapist who is bringing the couple in, is to reinforce de-escalation and to work through one of the key blocks to progress in Stage 2 of EFT-the ability of one partner, in this case the female partner, to see and take in the vulnerable reaching of the other, that is, to begin to trust these new signals, so that a correc- tive experience of safe connection can begin.
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